I probably know the answer to this already... We requested that our wedding RSVP's be returned by yesterday, August 17th. Out of 156 invitations, we are still waiting to hear back from 63 people. :unsure: I few people sent me messages on Facebook, saying that they were coming, and apologizing for sending the card out late. I just can't believe that number...I knew I would need to track down some people, but it would take me a whole day to contact that many people. I don't have their email addresses, and I hate sending bulk messages on facebook, because people hit "reply all," even when you tell them not to, and everyone gets tons of messages. Would it be distasteful if I posted something as my Facebook status like, "If you have not sent your RSVP for our wedding yet, please send me a message, telling me if you can come to the wedding, so that I can get a final head count. Thank you!" We have to get the numbers to our vendors by the end of this week, so I just don't know what else to do. I feel like it's rude of people not to send their response back yet, so it can't be much more rude for me to post that on Facebook.