I was in a relationship with a guy for 7 years. I met him in the 11th grade in high school. I am now a college graduate and just finished my 1st year of teaching. I noticed that things started changing...he started working out more and caring about being buff....hanging with his guy friends more and not wanting to spend time with me as much...he promised me marriage...I have been depressed for the past two weeks over this....why do men allow women to mess up what they have???? Yes we argued here and there but he used that as the excuse of why we were breaking up...I just don't believe that's the reason he wanted to leave... I know its another girl....can any men or women explain why this is?