Hi Everyone, I’m on the fence and really upset with my SO. Let’s just say I found out he has a bank acct with nice amount of money. Meanwhile he spend $15-30 here and there on food for the house, every other week. Gives me his share of rent on the 1st but... As a man, shouldn’t he be contributing more?? Taking me out, buying nice things? I have to ask, or this does not happen but every blue moon. Unless of course, I am p’od...then gifts and food start showing up left and right!! So he KNOWS what I like, but only does it every once in awhile or when I’m upset. When we met, I earned less. I budgeted and had help. Low income programs to help with rent & lights, etc. Now I make more, but I have more bills. I’m ready to cut my hours and then he’ll be making more, and see if he will still sit back and still expect me do everything. Whenever I bring it up, he goes postal on me. Not physical,but a lot of arguing. I hate fighting, but I really hate fighting over $$. We are living together in my apt, going on 2 yrs. Can this relationship be saved???