What do you do when you ask a student to move who's pushed in at the front of a line to move to the back and they just say, "No" and stand their ground (he's 5 years old)? We have a cool down time immediately after lunchtime play, the children lie down for 20 minutes (while everyone has been to have a drink and go to the toilet (they are in the classroom). When cool down time is finished the children sit on the carpet for 'show and share', however, this child will not get up, will not go and sit at his place on the carpet and says, "No". I give him choices and consequences and I follow through but there is no improvement. When his cousins came to collect him I asked if he was like this at home and they said 'yes', but what would you suggest I do at school?