As for the "vices", I mainly don't do them becaue it's against my religion, but I don't care to do them anyway & never cared to try them, so it's not like I feel like I'm missing out on something. Regarding the topic of what friends to have & not have, I don't think it's wrong for me to have that kind of thinking. It's still my prefences, wants, perogatives, so for someone else to say that's totally wrong or crazy is not their place to say. Here's another topic, I'm an only child. What if I said that I'd like or prefer my SO to be an only child too. That's NOT wrong, it's just my preference, as picky as it may sound to others.