Most of us can agree that if your SO/spouse cheats, that's cause to end a relationship. But I'm really curious to know what things you're willing to put up w/ in a relationship? What if your SO begins to do certain things that he didn't always do? (Since most of us here are female, I'll say HE for the sake of it, but men can feel free to post here too!) - What if he has a roving eye, how do you handle it? - What if he drinks or smokes a little more than you'd like? - What if he has more guys' nights out than you'd prefer? What's considered a lot to you? - What if he's a little too flirty? I guess if things like these develop later, it's up to me to decide if I want to live w/ it...probably NOT.