I've seen some comments in other threads from the female members mentioning that a date was bad, so that made me curious. Exactly what makes a date "good" or "bad" in your opinion? What do you look for from the guy and what do you expect from him, especially during the first few dates? I consider myself a gentleman who always treats a lady with respect and courtesy, but I'm not egotistical enough to think I know everything necessary about making women happy. I'm always willing to learn more, especially from the female perspective. So, what determines if a date is good or bad, in your opinion?