Bf's grandmother is in the hospital and not expected to make it. They said they are just trying to make her comfortable. He got this call while we were having lunch about 30 min ago. We've been together about 1.5 years. I suppose he is going up to the hospital to go see her, and his mom (it's her mother that isn't well). I asked if he wanted me to go with him, and he said no. I want to be there for him...but don't know how. His ex gf will be there b/c they have a kid together. I've done things with his mom, and she knows me pretty well. What can I do? I feel so helpless...and want to try and comfort him...but he doesn't want me there right now.