First I get a disturbing email from my new director (a whole different thread!), but my neightbor--who was 87--passed away a few days ago. His children were over today packing up the house when they broke into a fight about whatever and the police were called. It broke my heart to see the son being handcuffed (he was physically fighting the other son). Their father, who always helped me with yard advice, loved his kids more than anything. They hardly visited--even when he became too old to cook for himself. We had him over as much as possible and he'd share stories about his children. Now, seeing them like that, I just want to punch them myself!!!