So, one of the other teachers has a son who is getting married soon. I do not know the son or his bride-to-be at all and the teacher is a great work friend, but we don't socialize outside of school. I was invited to a shower for the bride to be and to the wedding. I went to the shower and took a gift. I am not going to the wedding mostly because I may be having a minor procedure the Friday before and partly because I don't know the bride or groom. I am debating sending a card and gift. The debate is because I did already take a shower gift and I really just don't know them. On the other hand, I appreciate being invited and the teacher (mother of the groom) has been a great friend at school. What do you think?