My boyfriend and I were talking on Sunday about what we would like to do on the 4th. We did not have any plans, so I suggested we invite some friends over. I made it very clear that it should just be some close friends. He sent an email out to some people, and many of them said they already had plans, so we were just going to meet up with some of them for the fireworks downtown. Fast-forward to tonight. Some of the younger "kids" that he works with were meeting out for dinner and drinks. Many of them are co-op students, some are full-time employees at his work, but just graduated from college. Anyway, my intoxicated boyfriend decided to invite all 15 of them over to our house tomorrow. It all started when one of them said something like, "We all want to party at your place tomorrow. Is that cool?" to which he responded, "It's up to the boss." They all turned to me, and asked if it was ok. I asked the one guy if they were all 21 and he said, "Yeah, I'm pretty sure." My boyfriend said, "Invite anyone you want, man!" and told him to come over around 4. I am so darn ticked off right now!!!!!!!!!! I know he had too much to drink, but the fact is that there will be about 15 people coming over to my house for a party tomorrow. My original plan of having about 6 close friends over has turned into entertaining 15 people that I just met tonight (my boyfriend actually just met most of them for the first time tonight). I do not want to clean for them, I do not want to shop for them, and I do not want to entertain them and act like a happy host because I'm not! Am I over-reacting? Should I just suck it up and try to have a good time? I feel like it's too late now, because they're coming!