Help. I have to make a decision fast! Okay, here's the background. I'm engaged to Mike who is in his friend Danny's wedding in April. I am friends with Danny through Mike. I don't really know Danny's girlfriend Caroline because she doesn't really go out with us a lot. I think I've met her 3 or 4 times. Well, apparently one of the bridesmaids has decided not to be in the wedding. Caroline thought that because my fiancee is in the wedding that she would ask me to be in the wedding. Actually, Danny asked Mike to ask me if I would be in the wedding. Like I said, I don't really know Caroline and I'm not sure if I would feel comfortable being in their wedding. But then again I would feel bad if they asked me and I declined. ARHG! What would you do if you were in this situation????