The Santa Controversy

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  1. jen12

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    Once again we've come to the time of year when you try to do a holiday read-aloud and the cries come up about Santa...

    "Santa isn't real!"
    "Santa is your mom and dad!"

    And my personal favorite....."Santa is DEAD!!!!"

    How do you deal with this? Do you focus on holiday books that don't involve Santa? Do you just ignore the conversation and say that for the sake of the story, Santa is a character like any other character in the book?

    It drives me crazy and for me it takes a huge part of the fun out of the holiday season when first graders are arguing about it.
     
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  3. czacza

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    Wow...first grade...really?

    I just tell kids that every one has a right to believe what they do, but it's not ok to tell someone their belief is wrong.
     
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    I tell my kids that "if you believe, you receive," and in my house, I believe, and my stocking gets filled, and I don't fill it! I also tell them that it's okay if they don't believe, but (1) they are not allowed to "step on" other kids beliefs and (2) we all can enjoy a good book!
     
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    Kids will then ask, "Do YOU believe in Santa?" I don't, and I won't say I do...so I just avoid it completely.
     
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    I'm in HS so I don't deal with this in the classroom, but my daughter is in 3rd grade so I'm just waiting for the question to come up with her...Right now she still believes.
     
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    We're not allowed to discuss holidays, so I would simply tell them that. At my previous school I had the kids write letters to Santa OR to their mom and dad. I told them I didn't want to hear any discussions about it. I would never discuss "believing" because if you have kids in your class that know it's not real, they see their teacher lying to the class. I figured it out the summer after Kindergarten. I don't think it's that unusual- I was a logical kid and I just knew it didn't make sense.
     
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    Surprisingly enough, I don't think I've ever had kids arguing about it. But I've always taught 3rd grade and above, so they're a little older. They were usually excited about doing Santa crafts and didn't really talk about it whether he was real or not.
     
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    My theme in December is snowmen and that helps keep the focus away from the "Santa controversy". If it comes up I do a little lesson on how everyone can believe different things.

    Something to quiet the nay-sayers: www.reindeercam.com It's a live reindeer cam and Santa feeds them 3 times a day. They aren't sure what to believe after they see it!
     
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    UGH, that's so annoying. I understand that some parents don't want their children to believe in Santa, but why not tell them NOT to ruin it for other children? Like when I was little my parents would tell me certain things were "family business" (like when mom was using Slim Fast). If I decided to tell my child the truth about Santa, I would tell them it's a family business that we don't share with other people.

    Anyway, as soon as a kid tries to interject there's no Santa I cut them off and in a stern voice say "If you believe in Santa he's real." Then I say no more discussion
     
  11. JustMe

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    This made me :lol:!
     
  12. Blue

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    This is why I loved working for agencies that did not celebrate holidays!
     
  13. Em_Catz

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    LOL, glad you enjoyed that. :p I was quite the blabber mouth as a kiddo
     
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    This just reminded me of my daughter coming to the conclusion that there is no Santa. when she was in 8th grade (barely 13) I got her a hamster for Christmas. I had to hide it in the small storage room there is behind her bathroom. That bathroom is downstairs, next to the kitchen. I was cooking Christmas dinner and along with all the cooking and baking, I had to guard the door to the bathroom, because if she went in there she would have heard the hamster running on the her wheel (it was very squeeky)

    It was crazy, but thinking back, it was funny. She didn't understand why she couldn't go in and suspected that something was up. So we 'survived' Christmas Eve with the secret, although she kept asking what the weird noise was. She didn't figure it out, or at least pretended not to.
    Then a few months later she declared she knew there was no more Santa.

    The funny thing was that she wasn't happy that I had been lying to her all this time. I had to confess about our cat and her laptop coming from me, and not Santa. The look on her face was priceless. :)
     
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    You have to see Christmas Eve when Santa drives off in a sleigh with the reindeer...it is so cool!!!!
     
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    But I do believe in Santa!!!
     

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