I live with my husband and his two children. His ex-wife now lives in the same town as us. We have had some ups and downs as we deal with having her in town. We have custody of the children. We said something to the children about Thanksgiving dinner and they asked if they could invite their mom. We never answered them. Now my husband has decided that we should invite her, her new baby, and new husband over for Thanksgiving dinner to be fair to the boys. It's about what the boys want. I LOST IT! The ex-wife is an awful person and an even worse mother to those boys and you want me to invite her into MY HOME? I DON'T THINK SO! Am I being out of line for not wanting a woman that I despise with every fiber of my being in my house? Do I really have to suck it up just for the sake of the children? Why should I cater to her needs in my own home when she would never do the same for me?