Skittle, if you said I went with my husband to see Harry Potter that is fine. If my gay friend says I went with my wife to see Harry Potter (friend is female) that to me is fine also. That's what I am talking about. I am not talking about a sexual conversation at all!!! I live in a very conservative part of the counry also, and I am not talking about any standards other then kindness. I really am talking about day to day life. Employment equity not just filling a quota would be the ideal to me.