Hello All, I got this friend, and I am really starting to wonder about her. We are both looking for pre-k teaching jobs. I have been giving her leads, faxing her resume, and calling to cheer her up. She has been telling me to take any job I can find, sabbatoging her interviews with a bad attitude, and constantly complaining about how much her life sucks. She is worried about paying her $60 subsidizing housing rent. I am lucky to have enough savings to pay my $750 mortgage. She is not certified, and complains about my suggestions of returning to school. I am certified, and working on my masters. Her bus card expires on Thursday. My car is sitting on 1/4 tank of gas. But I have been walking to the store, and combining trips to save gas. I buy one day bus pass for $5, and only go out 2-3 days a week. Her bus card costs $80 She tells me about the jobs contacts when they ask for certified teachers. I fax her resume when I see jobs that don't require certification. She says nobody will call her anyway, because her pay-as-you go phone will soon be off again. I just increased my anytime minutes for an extra $5 per month. I made payment arrangements last month, so they would not shut off my service. I showed her how to find jobs on the web at the library. I have my own computer at home. She complains that she can't afford a computer, but has not been back to the library since. So..you see what is going on. I am trying to make the most of my resources. She has much less, but doesn't seem to be taking advantage or making any effort to do more. Starting to wear me down, and really depress me. I offer her advice, but she won't take it! Any suggestions? Advice?