Betty, Anderson Cooper just said a few minutes ago he wouldn't be saying the name again. Unless I misunderstood, that is. But he went on to say he doesn't want his name to become a household name...that we all know it by now so there isn't a need to keep repeating it. He instead wants to focus on the victims. I just cannot imagine being his father. Just breaks my heart. To know you son did these things. To lose your ex-wife and your son and life as you knew it...there are no words. And then for your son's name to become the one no one wants to speak? How terribly, terribly sad.