How do you share the chores in your household, whether it is you and a S/O or roomie, or you have a whole family to chip in? One of my NY goals is to come up with a plan to get the cleaning under control in my house. I wouldn't call myself a neat freak, but I am definitely neater than BF, and I think I care more about the appearance of our house than he does. It bugs me that I have to ask him to clean something and that he just can't see that it is dirty and clean it up himself. And I hate it when I ask him if he can do X,Y,and Z and then when I come home he is excited to tell me he did X and Y. It bugs me because he can never seem to just completely clean a room, but also that when he tells me all excitedly, it's like he did me a favor, which would imply that it's my job or something. Don't do it for ME, do it because it is our home and it needs to be done. It's like at school when the kids expect positive praise for doing something they should have done anyway. I am going to talk to him about all this and we are going to sit down and come up with a plan that works best for us. But I am just curious - what does everyone else do? Do you just clean up as needed? Do you split everything up throughout the week? Do you just clean on weekends? Do you use any kind of chart or list or anything? Does one of you do more than the other? Do you just hire someone?