Think back to when your child was a baby or how you share baby care time now if you have a little one..... =) I would love to hear how you and your spouse/partner took shifts with baby care etc. whether mom worked at another job or stayed home with baby all day (because being a mom is a job!) I'd love to hear 1) What worked well with the shifts between you and your spouse/partner esp if they already had a FT job and want to come home to "relax" but you (as a mom) need a break too... 2) How were the general times/shifts decided so that both parents could enjoy time to recharge by themselves whether at home or elsewhere (like errands etc!) while the other tended to baby's needs =) (I will be a "stay at home mom" while my husband works FT so this issue is important for us to figure out so that we can both feel happy as people and parents!) I'm just starting week 31 of pregnancy and excited to be a first time mom!