We told our three youngest children tonight that my wife and I are separating. This has been a hard night. Our son (12) didn't want to talk about it. Our middle girl (10) tried to be silly and our youngest daughter (8) was the most visibly upset. We've been good about keeping our issues more low key but I think our son knew what was coming. It still hurts to see them hurting. Any advice from other fathers with children? I could certainly use some right about now.