I've always been more on the quiet/shy/introspective side of the fence. It's not that I don't appreacite that about myself but in social circumstances, I feel like it doesn't really help me!!! I don't want to be the girl who is very talkative but I'd like to feel comfortable speaking my thoughts in large groups. I feel so nervous and afraid to speak up. It's not as easy as, "just do it!" Is there anyone who can relate or give me some advice? Thank You!