I have never done this. My father in law passed away and I am in charge of planning the memorial. I have ideas, but I am looking for suggestions to add to what I already know. We are not having it in a traditional funeral home, so I will be doing all of the details that they would normally do. We are having the food catered. I have asked for photos from my mother in law and any awards, etc. Where do I buy a guest book? What should I use for the cards and money??? Help!!! I am thinking of getting a few green plants for the tables, some poetry for the tables, what else should I do??