There is a commercial with a young man making cereal for dinner while mom goes to work. He looks at the unfolded laundry and tree with one ornament, decides to sell his controller for his game for money for ornaments. Mom comes home to a nicely dressed young man with folded laundry and cleaned dishes wrapped in a laundry basket with a bow. It makes my heart feel joy and sadness at the same time. I hope more people realize at the coming holiday season that it is what we do for others that is much more important than what we get for others.