So here's the latest news in my roller coaster ride of a job hunt haha. I was recommended to HR for a possible job. It is out of state so I would have to relocate (6+ hours). I was told teachers start this coming Monday (school starts in two weeks for students). I was also told that sometimes it takes a few days for HR to contact the candidate. The thing is, if I had a 100% definite job I would have packed up and left this week to try to find a place to live before school starts. Though from past experience I know that just because a school recommends me to HR doesn't mean I 100% have a job. I've had a situation where I was recommended to HR and HR tells me I don't have the necessary certification etc. So right now I know nothing is set in stone. My question is, do you think I am expected to be at whatever meetings or training etc there are on Monday, even without hearing HR and clearing everything with them? .... I am hesitant to pack everything up and drive so far without at least speaking to HR and them saying all my stuff is clear. ....Should I email the school and say that? How would I word it? I don't want to come off as not eager to start, but at the same time, I would hate to pack everything up, drive 6+ hours, stay at a hotel during training and then have them tell me something went wrong.