My spouse doesn't get my job, & need to vent

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  1. linswin23

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    Do you guys enjoy certain activities that you both share? What about going for a walk together once home? What about watching a show you BOTH like a few nights per week?
     
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  2. TeacherNY

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    Is this the same guy who eats all your food too? Or am I confusing you with someone else? He sounds like one of those bad college roommates that you can't get rid of. I guess you do have that option of getting rid of him though LOL
     
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    Yes Teacher NY... Same guy. See a patten here?? I know he’s sitting on thousands in the bank, but acts like he’s doing me a favor with giving me $30-50 every 2 weeks on groceries (which he inhales in 24 hrs). I seriously thought it was a guy thing, maybe I didn’t cook enough.

    No. He’s eating everything.
     
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  4. Master Pre-K

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    We do watch movies & TV together on several occasions. I’m just concerened with this obsession with WWF which I find more relevant to teens and younger/single men, not grown men in committed relationships.

    He has a handful of cartoon-like women wrestling videos too. :confused:
     
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  5. linswin23

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    If it really bothers you then you should talk to him about it.
     
  6. Master Pre-K

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    I tried he doesn’t think it’s a big deal
     
  7. Been There

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    I believe you have a healthy perspective on venting that could benefit others too! As with so many other challenges we face in life, it is often a matter of how we choose to look at them that determines our peace of mind. We shouldn't under-estimate the power of self-reflection as an effective coping mechanism that can trump venting.
     
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