This is so silly but it breaks my heart and I have to vent somewhere. My 14-year old son calls his classmates twice a year for parties - his birthday and Christmas. All of them show up, bring giftcards, eat pizzas, hang out and leave. This has been going on for 4 years now but none of them have ever called my son to hang out with them - either at their homes or outside. Now my son is hearing-impaired and is not physically strong like these boys and cannot keep up with their basketball, track activities etc. So in a way, I understand them not hanging out with my kiddo. I know the boys do have "playdates" with each other, run track but it just annoys me that their moms also don't think about including my son. I want to talk to my son frankly about these things but my husband keeps saying "let our son be innocent a bit longer and he will realize on his own" etc etc. What do you all think???? Thanks so much. The kids have been "friends" since elementary school.