Married/ engaged people, how long did it take you to be sure that you wanted to marry your fiancee/ spouse? Was it immediate? Did it take a few weeks/ months/years? Do you think that there is a certain amount of time in which you should probably know (for example, if you've been together for X amount of years and still aren't sure, you probably never will be)? I know everyone is different and all that...just curious about other people's experiences.