Once again I have set myself up to get hurt again. I met a guy and I thought things were going great. We went out a few times, have been texting and talking. Now the communication has stopped. I sent him a message saying "I hope you had a good day at work, talk to you soon" . He replied back "I am glad you had a good day at work" (this shows he just scanned the text since he didn't read it correctly). Then he said "I am sick, trying to get better," so "I said I hope you feel better, get some rest". He lives in a diffrent town about 2 hrs away so its not like I can just hop in my car to go take him some juice or something and this was 9 at night. Well since then I have not heard a thing from him...and its been 2 weeks. I know he is better b/c he has been on Facebook. I am so sick of men leading me on, or making me think they like me when they don't. I was starting to really like him too. I was in an 8 year realtionship and it took me 2 years to get back out there b/c my self esteem was so low. Now that I have put my self out there 3 times now. I have had this type of thing happen.(read older posts) What is wrong with me? I have never had must confidence and this only makes it worse. I am almost 32 and feel so hopeless in love. When you work with all females and live in a small town its hard to meet new guys. I only met this guy b/c he works with my friends brother 2 hrs away. People tell me that I need to be more of a bit*h to get a guy...What do you all think?