Is there anything that you dislike about yourself besides physical? I am just feeling really down at this time in my life. People close to me call me defensive, self centered and controlling. It is not like I am trying to do it on purpose. I guess they somewhat know this. I hope. I really wish I could change these things about myself but its hard. I don't know how. Truthfully I am only these things with people I am close to. People at my job or others that I just meet would never even guess this about me. Im just so sad and upset with my self. It just makes me feel so down on myself. I really want to change but sometimes it just seems like these are things that make me...me.