Discussion in 'General Education' started by catnfiddle, Sep 26, 2018.
Sep 28, 2018
I'm not religious. I don't call myself an atheist but I also don't really consider religion in my day to day life. If this happened to me I would just say "yes he does" even though in my head I would probably thinking my day was good because of the workout I had that morning/great wife I get to see this afternoon/ect. I don't think me saying that instantly makes me religious and I would rather just agree than be off putting to someone with good intentions.
I also work in a state where its not uncommon for everyone to pray at faculty meetings, so I just stare at my shoes
It's so strange to me how different things can be in different parts of the US. Around here, there would be people who would definitely take issue with prayer at staff meetings.
Sep 29, 2018
Consider that you could have not contined the conversation after our colleague’s comment that God makes it a good day. A simple ‘have a great day’ would have suffced. Wereyu trying to connect and share your belief by relating your Yom Kippur holiday or were you reacting defensively?
That just seems rude. People who are praying for others are (hopefully) doing so out of kindness.
This particular friend IS kind of rude, to be honest. I still like her.
The Yom Kippur comment was a nervous reaction. Too many years of people trying to bring me to Christianity has made me a little knee-jerk.
Right you are. I hate it when people constantly try to convert other people to their religion. It’s incredibly rude.
I know the feeling. I once had a colleague that for years kept bringing up the trinity. I'm Mormon, and the faith rejects the concept of the Trinity. It quickly went past a theological discussion to just being annoying.
Who would find that "off-putting"? I've worked with many people of all faiths, and it sounds optimistic.
"off-putting"? I'm not seeing it.
Sep 30, 2018
It seems to me this is a situation where context, tone, and nonverbal clues could hold a lot of weight. It's easy to imagine the OP's conversation in either a conversational or a pushy tone.
I've found, as an adult, it's good to have ways to excuse yourself from any conversation that makes you uncomfortable, whatever the reason. In a similar situation, I'd probably say, "Hmmm..." and then, "Well, I better go make some copies. Enjoy your morning!"
But I've had it backfire too. I've had teachers chase me to the copy room, back to my classroom, wherever I happen to be going to debate Jesus and everything else.
Oct 5, 2018
We could just stick to "good morning" and leave the religious undertones out of it completely.
See post #28.
This kind of reminds em of when I told a coworker about my weekend plans-I was really excited because I had ticket to a Broadway show and I had been waiting months for it. She asked what show. I replied The Book of Mormon
She basically yelled at my and called me a religious bigot.
My response"...Well it did win Grammy so..."
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