I know this really has nothing to do with teaching but I know all of you guys are so great at helping and giving advice and I really could use some of that right now... Okay, first of all, it's about my baby's father... He left me as soon as he found out I was preganant because he knew his parents would be flaming! (Were both only 16) So he left town and a couple of days ago, his Dad called me and was yelling at me because I was his son's girlfriend and he hasn't seen his son in close to a year (he left town without telling his parents) and I don't know what happened but I just kind of blurted it out that I was the Mother of his Grandaughter! Big mistake but he actually took it pretty well... Anyway, the father of my daughter came back to town and today he stopped by for a visit and was yellign at me and harrasing me, but now all of the sudden he wants to see his daughter and spend time with her. I know she neeeds a Dad in her life but my husband to be is doing a good job at that and plus- her biological father smokes, drinks, and is not the father type. Should I just let him spend like a dya evry week with her or ignore him or what? He threatened to take me to court if I don't let him see his daughter. I got myself into a bad situation, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE HELP!!!!