my first Christmas party! Well my first party in general! Question though... I had two moms show up an hour early to help me set everything up and get the kids presents. None of the others helped, they just stood around staring. I want to give the two moms that helped a gift card to a local coffee shop or something similar.... would that be too much? My mom thinks I should just get them a card and go on.. not give them a gift card. Either way I want to thank them for going way out of their way to help me. They knew I was drowning and dived in with floatie arms. Have yall ever done anything like that for parents that help?