What do you do with all the tattling? I've taught the kids how to give "I messages". I've stopped them in the middle of tattling and asked them "Can this be solved with an I message?" I've even started to ignore them. But today they are all surrounding me and telling on eachother. When I ask them "can this be solved with an I message?" They say "I'm not telling." They then proceed to go into what feels like a 3 hour recount of tattling on someone. These kids are very low academically so I can not have them write their tattling down. They have not bought into the drawing the tattle. What else can I do? They are making me crazy with the telling.