I just started in a new preschool room. This class is nothing like I have had before... I will get them all settled into doing an activity. I walk away to great a parent and child and they are jumping off tables and throwing toys and tattling on each other for saying " booty". It is just out of control. I have a child who does not sit for circle time. I time is not long because I know their attention spans are not long. He just runs around the room and tried to run out the door to outside. I explain to him that it is not safe to go outside without his teachers. At naptime he will sleep for less than 30 minutes and waking growling and roaring so loud it wakes the other children. I have tried giving him something quiet to do but he continues to growl and roar and run around the classroom. If I try to redirect him he screams at the top of his lungs For about 15 minutes. I do not pick up or force anything but even if i just say something he starts screaming. There is another child that brings in toys from home every sigle days today he brought a sword. Even though we have told his parents toys from home are only allowed on Fridays for show and tell and they can not be weapons. They have to be theme related. He also can not seem to keep his hands to himself. He balls up his fists and punches everyone. The children will be sitting listening to stories and he will just turn around and punch them. When he is given a direction he starts punching people or if nobody is around him he will punch the wall. His mom is also another teacher in the center. Another child. She is really good and very sweet but cried when she comes in the morning. Which is fine and completely normal so I comfort her and get her talking and smiling...and her mom stands there the whole time watching and when she is smiling and talking and laughing her mom says "ok give me my hug and kiss" and the child begins crying again and runs out the door. I have explained to mom that it is ok to leave and she said well I want my hug and kiss. Then when she picks up. She picks up during nap time. The children are already awake most of the time because of the first child but She let's her son run around my classroom jumping on the cots and he gets all of the children chasing him. I need some advice and techniques bad.