Me and my boyfriend are currently looking for houses. His grandmother passed away recently and left him a large amount of money to use as a down payment. I unfortunately do not have a lot of extra money to put down. His family wants him to put his name on the house AND sign a prenup before we get married saying that if something happens to him, the house goes back to the family. Overall I understand their thinking but I said to him.... what if we live in the house for 30+ years and something happens to you? I suddenly give up the house I've lived in for 30 years? What if we have kids, etc.? Thoughts? All this sort of stuff is new to me.