I have a child that is having "messy" accidents in kindergarten. She usually has them once a week, sometimes even twice in one day. Her family doesn't seem to show concern, only telling me it's because she eats a lot of fruits and vegetables. She also talks with another child about her private parts. I've tried finding articles that link bowel movement accidents as a link to abuse. It seems to me it's something we discussed in college classes but I'm not positive. Can someone help me out with what to do!? Thank you!!!