What do you recommend I do.... My 4 1/2 year old daughter accidentally bumped into my husbands "private area" tonight and just said, oh, sorry Daddy. Then proceeded to tell him that he has the same "peepee" as "Johnny" (boy in her class). He of course then asked how she knew that and she proceeded to tell us that when the class is going to the bathroom, while one kid is washing hands, the teacher sends the next kid in to start going. So, while my daughter goes in to potty someone (boy or girl) is washing hands and while she is washing hands someone else (boy or girl) is going potty. She says that's the way they've been doing it all year!!!!!!! I totally believe her, I don't think she would make something like this up. My daughter is in a small preschool, I think there are only two bathrooms in the building and they are both the equivilent of a half bath in a home - so no privacy from the toilet to the sink. However, there are only 7 kids in her class, so we aren't talking about it taking a HUGE amount of time to let each kid go in to the bathroom by themselves. We are extremely bothered by this. If she were two, maybe....but at 4 1/2, I'm really not comfortable with this at all. Are we overreacting??? We just feel this is totally innapropriate for a christian school to be making the kids potty in front of other kids...especially kids of other sex. Now that I'm thinking about it, my daughter just recently has started closing her bathroom door when she uses the bathroom at home, says she needs her privacy. Shes never done that before. Maybe it's just her age, starting to get modest, but maybe that is bothering her having to go to the bathroom in front of others. What is your advice? What would you do? Thank you for any suggestions!!!