Am I crazy? I just had a long talk with my husband and realized how many expectations that I carry around with me. It's like I have everything planned in my head, just the way I expect it and if anything goes awry from it, I get concerned,annoyed or plain angry. Is anyone else like this? Am I crazy? I have expectations about EVERYTHING....down to how my husband should behave with his friends. For example, he had a friend over and they were playing video games and being very noisy. I started getting annoyed because for some reason I don't feel like a husband who is married should be playing video games and acting wild and crazy with his friend in our house. I don't know why but I also just associate video games as being childish, a teenager thing, or something guys do when they are single. And then for some reason, I get really dissapointed and further start thinking about what will happen when we bring a baby into our family. If he acts this way, it will be completely unacceptable. Well we talked and he thought it was ludicris that I would even think that he would be playing video games and having friends over when there is ababy to be taken care of. So I felt better but what is up with having all thesee expectations?? Should one get rid of all expectations? If so, what do you replace them with? And how do you get rid of them? They are driving me crazy!!!!!