Help. I have a grandmother who insist on staying with her 3 yr. old granddaughter every day of preschool. She said she needs time to adjust to being left alone. She was very upset with me when I suggested on the third day that she get the little girl settled and then leave for the rest of the day. The little girl cried very loud and would not stop and the grandmother ended up magically reappearing and stayed the rest of the day. She complained to the principal that I was very wrong to send her away. She then told us she had been planning on staying in the classroom for the whole first month and this should be her decision to make and not mine! The principal backed me up and is giving her 2 more days before she will not be allowed to stay with the child. We think the child may not be ready yet and needs to grow up a little more before she tries school. She is still fighting us. Anyone else have this problem?