A guy from match.com that lives 1 hour away from me contacted me. Seems like a nice guy. Date is tonight but I got thinking: He's in school finishing up his bachelors degree and will be applying to schools for either Physicians assistant or nursing in his state (he's in diff state than me). So I got thinking what if he goes out of state and ends up long distance. I asked him that, and he said there is a chance he could end up long distance at a college in other side of US and now he's talking about deployment (he's in national guard) although he says it's not likely he has to mentally prepare. I don't want a remake of my ex with focus on school. My ex was in nurse practitioner program and him to get deployed but getting ahead of myself now too. Would you go on date? He just said he can't guarantee long term if we hit it off.