Recently I made a mistake and have hit a bit of a "rough patch" as a result. I don't want to go into specifics because it's a bit embarrassing and not really the point. Anyways, my "best friend" was there when it happened, and to be honest, is indirectly responsible for it all. She was going to be the only person I told about it all. However, after I told her (and made it very clear I didn't blame her at all) she basically abandoned me. She's always been self-centered, and I've always been the type to sort of let myself be walked on. Since then I've told other friends because I needed some support (which thankfully they all have provided!). However, my "best friend" seems to think that now some time has passed and we can just pick up and move on. I tried but I realized I was still mad & told her that I really thought we owed it to our friendship to sit down and talk about it(this was over a month ago). She said she wanted to, but hasn't "had time". I tried again last weekend, and same thing. I told her that it was now up to her, and again she seems to think things are normal, sending me funny text messages, etc. I am not able to just let go of this, and honestly I've been ignorning her(perhaps a bit immmature...). I hate to be a whiner, but this has sort of consumed me at times. I just wonder if I was overreacting. I know it's hard without specifics, but I was feeling kind of proud of myself for dealing directly with the situation instead of letting it build up inside of me and it hasn't paid off at all. Any advice, thoughts, or similar stories would be appreciated. Thanks!!