One of my best friends from college lives in another state. She has been seeing this guy for two years who is not a good guy. He seems to be very emotionally abusive and she tells me that her parents, friends, and siblings do not like him. Her therapist told her to break up with him. Examples of his behaviors include: -sexual abuse in the beginning of their relationship -refusing to leave or sleep on the couch when they fight (she has bad back problems that the couch makes worse) -she locked the door once and he yelled at her "open the door or it's going to be bad" (meaning that he will break up with her) -not respecting her wishes about her not wanting to spent time with a friend who pulls her hair -generally not respecting her wishes -she thinks he probably has aspergers but thinks that this means he is less likely to cheat on her It is all around a bad relationship. I've been advising her to leave him for two years on and off but they got engaged a few months ago. I assumed that they had sorted out their issues but she called me yesterday crying again. However, she said she is still probably going to marry him. They already moved in together so it's hard for her to leave. She told me she sometimes wishes she was single again but I think she's also afraid to be single. She's also afraid of his reaction if she leaves. I messaged one of her friends in the area trying to get the contact info of her best friend because I'm worried about her. But at this point, I also can't spend hours every day talking to her. I was exhausted from school yesterday and wanted to sleep early but stayed up until 11pm talking to her. I turned my phone off today because I really want to relax and not talk about this again when I know she is not going to leave him. I want to be a good friend but I really don't know what to do!