When did you start have that 'motherly love' feeling for your children? I'm 12 weeks pregnant...and feel absolutely nothing. Things have been beyond stressful for me anyway worried about bills and not having a job. (only part time at car dealership) Situation with BF is NOT ideal and this came at a time when I was finally feeling strong enough to let go of him. He has another kid with his ex...and as sad as it is...I feel nothing for her either. I think she is a spoiled brat that gets away with murder. Terrible, I know... I'm just worried I'll be one of those mothers that regrets their kids and treats them poorly. :unsure: Everyone is telling me to 'enjoy' this...but I can't. I do want to be happy...but it's taking forever to even feel a bit excited.