I'll be getting married in 2 years hopefully, when my boyfriend settles down. He's finishing med school, and I know that he'll be making a lot more than me when he's done with his residency. I don't know, I just don't like the idea of him making 150K more than me. I sort of feel like I won't be putting in my equal share. My mom was a computer programmer and she made a very good living, but my dad made double what she made. I sort of felt like my mom felt like she needed to do more to make up for that. Of course, this really isn't an issue at all. I just feel bad sharing money when most of it actually isn't mine.