based on what they wear to school functions? Meetings, PT conferences, back to school night, or even just to drop their kids off in the morning?? For instance, if a mom comes in to parent teacher conferences wearing a super tight t-shirt bearing pretty much all of her very...ample...cleavage with lacing up the sides, shorts that look painted on, thigh-high leather boots with lacing up the back, and more make-up on than one would wear to a nightclub-- does it change the tone of the meeting, conference, etc.? Does she lose credibility in your eyes? If the other parent or a step-parent dresses more conservatively, do you tend to gravitate toward them during the meeting? Does it change if this mom is thin compared to being plus sized?? Does it make you think "no wonder!" if her child has issues in school? I would really love to get some thoughts on this, and ask that you all be COMPLETELY honest!!