Bella, Yep!!! Last yr, I had a class with mostly severely disturbed diagnosed kids ( due to a consolidation). There were a handful of normal kids in the class. As much as I do not like to disrupt instruction and learning time or bribe kids, I think it would have been fun to hand out marshmallows to THOSE who behaved. I would have liked to give them something even better IF I'd have been allowed to deny the ones who screamed, hit, kicked, and cussed at people the same prize. The kids who hit, screamed, and cussed expected to be given the same prize, so it would have been a shockeroo to them. I will admit, that comes from a bit of meanness in me... They'd expect to be given another chance. If I did not give in, I'd have been seen as unreasonable. So no1 got marshmallows. lol You are right on that when these kids need that much help, they need a para at least.