Different kind of thinking I was helping my stepdaughter and her boyfriend move. She had come over to clean my place (I pay her). And back to her place. So now we are moving the Closet stuff She comes back out mad saying, "Matt did not do what I told hime to do, I told him to have the hanger stuff in the living room, so we could just bring it all out!" I said, "Why are you mad he is bringing it out now?" "I think he was using his head." She looked at me quizzically mad. I then said, "Why handle the stuff twice when he can come straight from the closet to the van. "Your way he has to handle it twice, you have to remember men are lazy if we have to carry something we will want to do it only once." Her reaction was, "humfff." I then asked her, "Still mad at Matt?" She said, "Yes" I say, "Why?" She said, "Just because"..... My reaction I told Matt, "It is hard to understand women, welcome to the club"