I'm a first grade teacher at a very difficult Title 1 school. We're known for our challenging behaviors. I have three friends in my class who are quite challenging and all three participate in the CICO (Check In, Check Out Program). It's a positive program in which students meet with a support teacher in the morning and they earn points throughout the day to get prizes. They are all responding well to the program and have improved but I'm really struggling with one student in particular. The CICO program focuses on ignoring negative behavior and rewarding positive behavior, but my student's negative behavior is unacceptable and I think he needs logical (often negative) consequences. Here is a brief explanation of his behaviors: 1. When we sit on the carpet for ELA instruction, he walks around the room and does what he wants. When I ask him to come to the carpet, he ignores me and refuses. 2. When it's time to come in for recess, he won't come in and our playground assistant has to coax him for fifteen minutes to come in. 3. He leaves the classroom without asking to go to the bathroom or just leaves the classroom. The last couple of times I've had another adult watch my class while I find him, but most times I have to call admin to look for him. 4. Yesterday he tore up our tattle box because he was upset because it was time to do our math assessment, which I was going to work on with him one on one. I made him remake it. 5. He's is very disrespectful to other students and aggravates them. He has had trauma in his life...I am very aware of this. I also know his home environment is not the best. We are planning a home visit because his mom will not come in for a conference. I also know he is seeking the attention of me and his peers. However, he knows what the class and school expectations are and he is VERY capable academically to do all of our classwork. In other words, I'm tired of him getting his way! Yes, I'm the classroom teacher but I feel like his support teacher (our SEL support) thinks I'm a witch when I impose logical consequences for him! Any support or advice would be helpful!