A fellow teacher said something really rude to one of my students Friday. He dressed as a fireman for Halloween and she said, "You should have dressed up like the devil you are." This child and this teacher have had a lot of issues, and this child shouldn't even be in my class, but mom refused to let him go to her class again. (We keep kids the whole time they are in elementary school). I immediately said, "No,______________ is a good boy. Please don't talk about him like that." She then rolled her eyes, and said something about me being too soft on him. Some other teachers commented that they were surprised that I "stood up" for my student, because I am a very quiet person normally. It was only then that I wondered.....did I do the right thing? Would you stick up for a student, and correct a teacher in front of the child in a situation like this?
You absolutely did the right thing, and I would keep some documentation on that incident, possibly sharing your concerns with your supervisor. That just isn't right.
Wow...that is mind-blowing. You absolutely did the right thing. I can't believe admin hasn't stepped in already, if this teacher is like this with the student. I doubt it's the first time.
There are times not to correct a teacher in front of students. This was not one of them. You were part of this conversation or in close enough proximity that she knew you would hear. She sounds like a piece of work.
That sounds like a terrible form of bullying and I would document it and bring it to the attention of my admin. I can't believe this is being allowed.
Yes, you did the right thing, and I am sure it wasn't easy to stand up to her. Good for you for standing up for your student.
Absolutely you did the right thing. I am sure it was not easy, and agree start documenting the comments.
Any teacher who would dare say a thing like that to a child is disgusting and vile in my opinion. She shouldn't be in a classroom anywhere.
I would have called the state child abuse hotline, or whatever mandated reporters are supposed to do. When an adult insults a child, it is emotional and verbal abuse. She probably does it more often when other adults are not around.
Thanks everyone. This child is totally non-verbal. Sometimes I think people think they can get away with being mean to these kids because they can't tell anyone.
OK I was angry before. Now I am furious! She said this to someone who can't defend himself if he wanted to. I'd report her asap for bullying a child with disabilities.
Wait, what? That's a game changer. I would most definitely be having a sit down with that teacher. With an admin present.
Yeah, this further development makes me rather furious. The teacher should definitely get examined with a fine tooth comb to make sure she isn't doing this to any other students.
Yes, I agree report it. Definitely not OK! This incident makes me sad. But thank you for standing up for the child. It's probably something he will remember for a lifetime
You did the right thing. That was very, very wrong of that teacher to make such a horrible comment to that child. Whatever her feelings towards him, the child should never even suspect that she dislikes him. He is still worthy of respect.
