How to you handle someone coming on too strong...what do you say? I just reconnected with a guy this week that I worked with while I was in college. He is in the military and will be coming home this week to visit before he leaves for overseas...He said we should meet up and I was like sure...why not. Well he has been texting me and is coming on very strong. I am quite shy and reserved and it makes me feel uncomfotable. I dont want to be rude to him...I kindof just ignored the last text...and he just texted back and said I guess you are busy....ugh what do I say?